Who is really down for you?

LADIES! ATTENTION! The statement above 👆 is a question you should ask yourself constantly. Who is really down for you ?? Sadly most friendships change with the seasons but as you age you realized who is down and who isn't. Who is there to see you succeed and who could careless.

Yesterday I got a chance to sit and talk to three great intelligent people and the conversation came up about friendships and how lately friendships are becoming temporary! I know for a fact I'm preaching to someone right now. Whether it be a friendship or a romantic relationship.

Now here is what I have to say about the subject. Don't regret the people you have encountered or those that have hurt you but instead use them to make better choices in the future. The more experiences you have the more you will begin to realize who is really down for you and who is not. I've learned through past experiences that some friends can turn on you just as fast as they became friends with you. It's sad but it's life, and we go through life. God gives us challenges to better us as individuals. You may feel as though you wasted precious time but in all reality you grew and are now mentally aware of characteristics that you shouldn't associate with.

You meet temporary people everyday but instead of sitting and being upset that they hurt you, hurt them by being better than you were when they met you 💁 and cherish the ones who love you and are really DOWN for you 💜🙌